I am in love with someone I simply can't have...

Dear Diana,
I don't believe you can ask somebody to control who they fall in love with, and I'm falling in love with someone I simply can't have, I've known her all my life, we're good friends. She's 19, I'm 23. She is the most beautiful incredible person ever and I'd do anything to be with her, but she's my first cousin. I know this is wrong but I can't help it. I love her. What should I do?

Akash

Dear Akash,
First figure out if she loves you or not. What's the point of building castles in the air? You might be making yourself miserable over something that really never was yours to begin with. And if it is impossible for you to have au00a0 romantic relationship with her, the lesser you see her the better. But if there is even the slightest sliver of hope that it could work out between your families, take that chance. Medically speaking though, you'll have to speak to a physician to figure out what could go wrong should you two decide to, fall in love, get married and have a baby.

What if she's cheating on me?

Dear Diana,
What do I do when I think my girlfriend is cheating on me?