Dear Diana,
I am a 20-year-old girl. I am a college student and work as a chartered accountant. I have been having an affair with a guy for the past five years. The problem is that my boyfriend doesn't have a job. When-ever I tell him to get one, he says he will, but doesn't.

We've been fighting on this issue for a long time now. He said that he will get a job after we get married, but how can I believe him? So, finally, I broke up with him. Five months later, he called me and said he had got a job. He had told me that earlier toou00a0-- it was a lie thenu00a0-- how can I believe him now? What should I do?

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