Dear Diana,
I am 20. I met this girl three years ago. I was an introvert then, but really good at my studies. She and I were in the same coaching class.

We became very good friends and would talk for hours about crazy ideas. I later realised that I had a crush on her, even though she had a boyfriend.

I used to drink and smoke a lot and she told me she didn't like it. One day she told me she had broken up. That New Year's Eve, I got drunk and proposed to her over the phone at about 1 am. She didn't say anything then but from the next morning she started behaving as if she didn't even know me.

My friends said it will pass and after 13 days, we were back to talking like we used to do. We had our last fight in May 2008. I haven't seen her since.

I took to drugs. I have been off it for eight months now, have a good job and my own place to stay. I want to tell her I still have feelings for her and if whatever happened was a mind game of some sort, then she should just tell me so that I can move on. I still have her old cell number. Should I call?

Rahul