Dear Diana,

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I am 19, she is 18. I met her at a nightclub two years ago, we had common friends and we even started to get along well. We became good friends and slowly started having late-night chats. We grew emotionally attached to each other. We grew physically attached too, but then I got a girlfriend... her best friend. However, we cannot resist each other and continue to have sex sometimes. I really enjoy the sex, and do not know if I really love my girlfriend. I don't know what to do.

XYZ

Dear Friend,

The relationship with your girlfriend is one of convenience. The problem with you is... you never stopped loving the first girl. Why did you even get into a relationship with her best friend?u00a0 In any case, you have to decide if you wanna be with Girl #1 simply because you love her more than you love your girlfriend or because the sex is much better; or existent for that matter. If it is the latter, I think you're making a mistake and are going to end up ruining three lives by continuing with this. If it is the former, go ahead and dump your girlfriend and be with the one you love. Provided of course that she wants to be with you too. Check that out first.

I can't talk to girls...

Dear Diana,

I am a 17-year-old average teenager living an average life. My problem is I can't talk to a girl. I was a never the socialising type, but this is ridiculous. My friends say I am good-looking and trendy, but when I'm alone I can't talk to girls. I think I'm too self-conscious. Please help! I don't want to die alone or have an arranged marriage either.