Section 377 verdict: Gay married couple wants people to treat them normally

The Supreme Courts decision to decriminalise homosexuality was much awaited in the country and no one is happier than same sex couples A gay couple who married in the USA and have settled in Pune spoke about their experience abroad and in India and their aspirations for the LGBTQ community after the verdictThe couple Sameer Samudra and Amit Gokhale have been together for the past 15 years They work in the same multinational company where Sameer is in the manufacturing unit while Amit is in the logistics departmentThey said the decision is a good positive step of thinking progressively It may be late but it is not too late they said almost in tears The duo completed their MS and later MBA in the USA and met on a dating site 15 years back Five years later they were married They lived in Colombia and returned to India last yearSameer recalled I met Amit on a dating site We chatted for a couple of months and then met We were both from India which brought us together and our love blossomed Our parents were progressive and understood us So our marriage was an emotional moment for them too We faced many hardships When we came to Pune there were prejudices and misconceptions about homosexuals and that made living here difficultHe pointed out that when they returned people used to look at them as if they were criminals Amit hopes this will change He said I am very happy I dont have words to express my feelings After many years the LBGT community can heave a sigh of relief Now our marriage will be considered legal in IndiaTreat us normallyHe added People used to question our marriage I think there is nothing that gives me more pleasure than telling them now yes we are married There is a strong need to create awareness about this topic ndash the LGBTQ community in society and that people like us should be treated normally like ordinary people Now after this decision people must talk about their relationships openlyThis law has got the burial it so richly deserved As a parent I feel relieved that our children are less vulnerable now After this judgement as parents we look forward to other rights like marriage maybe Yet it is little use stressing and fretting about all that now it is time to celebrate the first step Our children will have less staged lives This Pride march one should see a jump in the number of parents as children themselves will encourage their parents to join the marchPradeep DivgikarThis means a lot as a parent of an LGBT child A lot of pain must have gone for a lot of parents across the country I would imagine a lessening of pressure some fear and worry for many Now that Section 377 has been scrapped by the Supreme Court all the prejudice needs to be scrapped from minds as well Aruna DesaiA trailblazer in every wayParents of Lesbian Gay Bisexual Transgender LGBT children group with the selfexplanatory name of Sweekar speak outThis law has got the burial it so richly deserved As a parent I feel relieved that our children are less vulnerable now After this judgement as parents we look forward to other rights like marriage maybe Yet it is little use stressing and fretting about all that now it is time to celebrate the first step Our children will have less staged lives This Pride march one should see a jump in the number of parents as children themselves will encourage their parents to join the marchThis means reliving freedom in as many ways as possible relishing it and cherishing it I think everybody regardless of sexual orientation should celebrate this verdict I want to see this open the gateway to other rights adoption surrogacy and joint property plus the question of next of kin This is a trailblazer in every wayNilakshi RoyTo everyone who fought before me and to everyone who will after me and for those celebrating today this day is going to hold immense meaning But of course laws dont always change minds and a huge chunk of our society still looks down upon homosexuality But in time a positive outlook towards LGBTQ rights is a near possibility and that is overwhelming A crucial aspect to this is education Changes in the school curriculum that makes a student more sensitive helps them to go against traditional norms is what we need to work onHaima Nizar model and artist managerIndia will be a far more just and humane society because of this judgment striking down this cruel colonial relic All Indians will benefit irrespective of differences in income backgrounds or orientation in matters of love and sex Now police and bigots and bullies can no longer terrorise others There is no doubt that this ruling will soon lead towards true equality and justice for individuals who love others of the same sex or gender including in matters of marriage Siddharth Dube author No One Else A Personal History of Outlawed Love and Sex HarperCollinsPeople like us should have same rights as everyone elseHappiness was all around as equality had prevailed again ndash Poonam Mahajan MP and BJP youth wing national presidentAs I was in the courtroom at the time of the judgment there were multiple goosebump moments for me What was historic about the judgment was that the bench apologised for the discrimination being meted out to the LGBTQ community for years One of the judges also spoke about the need to acknowledge such people as complete citizens of the country and the importance of sensitising others about it Social acceptance is going to be the next challenge ndash Ishaan Sethi founder of Delta Indias first LGBTQ networking appAll my LGBTQ friends have been congratulating each other since the verdict came out I havent felt this happy in long At least now we wont feel like criminals I hope this encourages firms to hire transgender people I was lucky to get a job but there are so many of us who are still struggling to earn a living ndash Mahi Malini Pujarstaffer at Navi Mumbais queerfriendly Third Eye CafeIm proud of being the first politician who wrote an article in support of abolishing Section 377 Im glad it happened But its sad that the Supreme Court had to do it instead of the Parliament which is supposed to take up such amendments that ensure equality and civil liberty ndash Milind Deora former minister and Congress leaderIt is a historical day for the LGBTQ community Finally we are free today The deeprooted discrimination against the LGBTQ community in India has shattered our lives In fact the saddest day in my life was when I was denied rights to my ancestral property due to my decision to reveal my sexual orientation The apex courts decision is the beginning of a new challenge to eradicate discriminationndash Prince Manvendra Singh Gohil goodwill ambassador AIDS Healthcare FoundationThe verdict is overwhelming Feeling that it is going to come through and actually seeing it happen is really something else I was standing at the gathering at Carter Road yesterday and thinking about how so many of us some of us queer some of us not had come together to celebrate what has happened Thirty years ago we couldnt even have imagined this Sameera Iyengar cofounder JunoonAlso ReadSection 377 Verdict Mumbais queer celebrate playing the country dholCatch up on all the latest Mumbai news crime news current affairs and also a complete guide on Mumbai from food to things to do and events across the city here Also download the new midday Android and iOS apps to get latest updates