I ended a relationship after 4 years and havenu2019t been able to forget about my girlfriend even though it has been three months since we broke up. I found out last week that she has already found someone else and canu2019t get that out of my mind. I know our relationship would never work, but I canu2019t imagine how she managed to move on so quickly given how long we were together. How do I deal with this sense of rejection? Why is it rejection if she has decided to move on before you have? The two of you made a decision together, to end something that wasnu2019t working out for you both.

If the relationship belongs to your past, so should your feelings about her.