Not attracted to him, yet can’t forget him!

There is a man in my neighbourhood who recently reached out to me and asked if I would consider going out for a cup of coffee. We have been acquaintances for years and I know where he lives, but I was curious because he is married, and I wasn’t sure what his intentions were. He told me he wanted to chat about something, and I agreed because it was a public place. When we met, he confessed that he has had feelings for me for a while and was hesitant to mention them because I knew he was married. He said his marriage is over and he has been working on a divorce for months, which is why he finally had the courage to speak with me. He wants me to think about what he said. I am confused because I have never been attracted to him, but I can’t stop thinking about our conversation. What should I do?
You shouldn’t do anything until you have an idea of where this is going, which depends entirely upon where you want it to go. If you aren’t attracted to him, and he is still married, there’s no point thinking about a future. If you still think about him after his divorce comes through, you can always meet him for coffee and re-evaluate your feelings.

My best friend is getting married, and I am afraid this will change our relationship forever. How can I make sure things stay the same?
Relationships evolve constantly and can get stronger over time. Trying to keep things the same can sometimes cause more harm than good. Nothing will change between you and your friend if the two of you don’t want it to. Continue to communicate, spend time with each other whenever possible, and support each other the way you have. If you work at it, your friendship ought to be just fine irrespective of marriage or anything else.