She says I’m not serious enough!

Someone I have been dating for a couple of months recently turned me down when I suggested a committed relationship. When I asked for a reason, she said I didn’t come across as serious enough. I was surprised because I thought my suggestion of commitment was proof that I was taking this seriously. She hasn’t met me since that evening, and I haven’t sent her a message because I don’t know what to say. I thought we got along well and am sad it didn’t work out, but I don’t know if I should ask her out again and try to convince her. I don’t know what I am doing wrong because my intentions are genuine. I just don’t understand what she means by saying I’m not serious enough. What do I do?
You should ask her out if this is something you would like to clarify. It’s possible that she has misinterpreted something you have said, or your approach, and being able to put your side across is important because it can clear a lot of misconceptions you aren’t aware of. It’s also possible that she isn’t as interested in this relationship as you are, which may explain why she hasn’t reached out to you either. If that is the case, and she isn’t willing to be honest about her rejection, it’s just something you may have to come to terms with. It’s always best to avoid jumping to conclusions though, which is why you should consider meeting her again. If she refuses, you can put this behind you.

How do I know if I am in a committed relationship or just a ‘friends with benefits’ situation with someone I am intimate with? We don’t talk about this, but we have also been together for seven months and I am confused about where we stand.
If you don’t ask, you won’t find out. If your partner isn’t asking, it’s probably because he or she is comfortable with the status quo. Try and be more direct.