Anniversary special! Arjun Bijlani reveals the secret behind 12 years of happy marriage with Neha Swami

Arjun Bijlani and Neha Swami

Twelve years, countless memories, and one rock-solid bond, Arjun Bijlani and Neha Swami are celebrating their wedding anniversary with love, laughter, and a touch of nostalgia. In a heartfelt conversation, Arjun took us back to where it all began, an ordinary get-together that turned into the start of an extraordinary journey.

Twenty-one years ago, it was a party at Neha's maasi's residence where Arjun first saw her, and he just knew she was the one. Sharing the story of their first meeting, Bijlani said, "We crossed paths at a get-together at her place, and honestly, that one evening changed everything for me. It didn't take long - I was instantly drawn to her. Beyond her beautiful smile, it was her strong personality and quiet determination that stood out. She had this focused, calm energy that really impressed me. I just knew she was the one."

It's said that there's always a woman behind a successful man, and for Arjun, it was Neha who brought stability into his life. "She's grounded, emotionally strong, and has taught me the value of patience and presence. I used to be more impulsive, but she helped me become more mindful and emotionally aware," Arjun shared.

What would Neha change about Arjun?

When we asked Arjun what is that one quality of his that Neha would want to change, he smiled and quickly said, "I'm always glued to my phone," and just like every wife, Neha isn't fond of this habit.

The secret of Arjun Bijlani's happy married life

To stay together and so much in love even after 12 years isn't as easy as it sounds. When asked what the secret to their happy marriage is, Arjun quickly said it's all about "friendship, mutual respect, and growing together." Just like every couple, Arjun and Neha too had their share of lows, but what never changed is how much they value each other. "Neha and I laugh a lot together. Even in serious moments, we find reasons to smile. That's what keeps the bond strong - never letting go of the fun, even as you build a life together," the actor added.

Arjun Bijlani's anniversary plans

This year, Neha and Arjun are celebrating their 12th wedding anniversary. While there were times when work kept them apart, this year the couple is vacationing in Dubai, and Arjun has something special planned for Neha. While he didn't reveal many details about his gift for his lady love, Arjun shared, "I'm preparing a small surprise for her - something personal to show how much she means to me and to celebrate our journey so far."