Dear Diana,
Last month, I split with my boyfriend of two years. I wanted some time by myself and to figure out what I wanted to do in life. It was my decision to call it quits as my guy was caring and loving. However, now I miss him. I want him back in my life. It was a sudden decision and I am regretting it. What should I do? I feel if not him, I need a guy in my life who will love and care for me.
— Fareeda


Illustration/Amit Bandre

Dear Fareeda,
As they say act in haste and regret at leisure. This is exactly your case. When you had everything going well, why did you take such a sudden decision? If you want him back in your life, you will have to make the first move. Approach him again and apologise for the decision. Tell him that you have realised what he means to you and how important he is for you. If he agrees to take you back, it will be great, But if he acts difficult, move on. Next time, remember not to act in haste.