Dear Diana,
My girlfriend parted ways with me in February as she did not have any feelings for me. We are both 27. Since then she has been hanging out with other guys, but did not find anyone suitable. She now wants to patch up with me. I like her, but now I am in a fix. My close pals tell me she is just using me. Should I get back with her?
— Amreesh

Dear Amreesh,
What your pals are telling you is right. Tomorrow she might find someone else and walk away yet again. Or perhaps she may be bored of you yet again. If you still have feelings for her and want her back in your life, you need to talk it out with her. She can't be oscillating from one guy to another. Perhaps she is unsure about her feelings and can't decide. It is time she takes control and realise who she wants to be with. She is 27 and not a teenager. Take her back only if she is committed to you — or else prepare yourself for heartbreak yet again.