Dear Diana,

A year ago, my girlfriend ended our relationship after two years. I was certain that she was meeting someone else but could never prove itu00a0-- she says that she wasntu00a0-- but a couple of days later I spoke to her and she said to leave her alone as she was in a relationship. I spent the next few days acting like an idiot trying to convince her it was the wrong decision.

Eventually I sent her an email saying it was the right decsion and that I wished her well and wouldn't contact her again. After her a few months she contact me by email -- she chatted and then went really cold on me then disappearedu00a0-- this has continued since then.
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Every few months she will send an email, always the same hi hw are you - then disappearsu00a0-- at the end of the year she arranged to meet me to give me some of my old stuff backu00a0-- prior to meeting she was all chattyu00a0-- but when we met nothing. I sent her an email saying its not right the way she treats me - and for her to not contact me again.

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