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Its often said that desperate times call for desperate measures Roughly halfway into the governmentmandated lockdown a study by BARC India and Nielsen indicates that millions of Indian men women and children mdash who are deprived of social contact and their usual means of entertainment mdash are taking to their screens with newfound gusto Another report by digital news publisher BISBO indicates that children and young adults up to the age of 21 years are watching the most television while smartphone usage has gone up to nearly 25 hours per week with 33 to 44yearolds spending most of their waking hours glued to their phone screens Dr Nahid Dave a psychiatrist at Thought Matters says that this uptake in screen time can have lasting implications on mental health While most people believe that they will automatically switch back once they resume their regular routines too much screen time can have lasting implications on mental health and physical wellbeing she observesDr Nahid DaveToo much of a good thingUrban nuclear families are the hardest hit says Balasubramanian G a counselling psychologist and an expert in addiction psychology In such households adults are preoccupied with juggling their fulltime jobs with household chores The amount of time they are able to devote to their children is compromised This can either lead them to become too controlling or neglect their children altogether he says Consequently such children turn to the Internet for entertainment and to socialise with their peers For adults social media plays a leading role in helping to reduce stress However many students and adults are becoming reliant on Internet gaming pornography compulsive shopping and bingewatching as means to alleviate both boredom and stress Dr Sagar Mundada a psychiatrist at Health Springs points out that individuals with a history of poor selfcontrol can veer dangerously close to addiction aided by the easy availability of highspeed Internet These addictions he says will continue to pose problems post the lockdown in the absence of timely precautions Those affected will experience changes in their sleep routines and appetites Screen addiction can also lead to insomnia mood disorders restlessness and issues with memory and attention spans Watching too many viral videos about the pandemic can lead to anxiety which affects their ability to focus on their routine activities says BalasubramanianBalasubramanian GScreening your screenInternet usage during the lockdown is typically for four reasons says Dr Dave These include communication chats and video calls entertainment movies or series social media and educationenrichment Most people use their screens only for the first three purposes The fourth is neglected Its important to understand exactly how much time you are spending on each Most people are in denial about how many hours they spend online timing your usage will make you more conscious and judicious while using devices and gadgets she says Other strategies include1 Allocate time Dr Dave warns that bombarding yourself with too much information can create anxiety While you may not remember the exact piece of news or meme being constantly exposed to death rates or other alarming statistics can affect your subconscious and make you fearful she says Fatima Agarkar educationist at KA EduAssociates recommends reducing the amount of time your children are exposed to televised news Instead she suggests taking the lead to update them about relevant facts simply but clearlyDr S Mundada2 Keep a schedule Many schools are conducting virtual lessons for students These take up four to five hours of their day By the end of their lessons most children automatically tire of their screens Parents ought to offer them meaningful alternatives Make sure your child has at least three hours of nonscreen time Reading aloud to children and board and card games can keep them engaged Involve your children in creating a daily schedule mdash and also for simple household chores Agarkar adds3 Socialising is key Be aware that these are extraordinary times and children especially those who live in alladult households will need some social interaction with their peers Children need to laugh with their friends and to discuss the days happenings An extra hour of phone time with their friends wont hurt mdash you could break it up into smaller segments across the day says Agarkar Dr Dave emphasises on the importance of oneonone engagements via chat phone or video calls as opposed to mindless browsing on social media Studies indicate that the latter can make you lonelier she explainsFatima Agarkar4 Look inwards While some people are productive and view these 21 days as an incredible opportunity for selfimprovement this may not necessarily be the case for others These constant comparisons can create anxiety Its crucial to also allocate time towards doing something constructive These dont have to be ambitious targets mdash simply introspecting about the things and people you care about can be useful Mindfulness exercises such as breathing and meditation can improve your attention span focus and overall mental wellbeing suggests Dr Dave5 Use hacks Even with addictive pursuits such as online games and porn being firm about switching off at a predetermined time can go a long way says Dr Mundada Use apps that automatically turn your gadget off if you have trouble doing so yourself If mindless browsing is a problem he recommends switching to a slower connection such as your phone Internet instead of using highspeed broadband Waiting for those extra 10 seconds while the video buffers can temper the dopamine kick in your brain and things that seemed so irresistible wont matter as much he explainsA mixed blessingAlthough I am not typically too attached to social media working from home has changed things I often find myself reaching for my phone to mindlessly browse through my feeds during breaks Ive tried to limit this and instead be more particular of my screen time usage I turn to social media for lighthearted entertainment chat with friends and to keep up with the news Surprisingly Ive managed to reconnect with old friends who I had not spoken to in years The only downside is that it can sometimes be overwhelming to watch how creative and productive some people are during this phase This at times makes me feel inadequate about my achievementsJoyson Castelino 23 communications professionalGoals for social distancingIve found that most people on social media platforms are overwhelmingly negative and fearful Fortunately most of my screen time is engaged in academics thus limiting my exposure to social feeds I limit my screen time to three hours a day Although at times I exceed this limit it makes me more conscious and mindful In the same breath social media is an effective learning tool and keeps me engaged with my friends mdash I spend my time online chatting with my peers sharing news and resources and 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