Imagine this. You are a woman. You meet a man who is youthful, good-looking, charming, funny. He has a poetic soul and a talent for generous seduction. Every encounter is a heady excursion in wit, fine food, daytime wine and fervid romancing. What’s more, he is progressive, admires strong women, supports LGBT causes and is sensitive to the undercurrents of class. Would you feel like you hit the Mills and Boon jackpot or not?