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Mandira Bedi on her adopted daughter: Tara talks non-stop
Updated On: 01 November, 2020 06:55 AM IST | Mumbai | Aastha Atray Banan
Mandira Bedi on a handful of a daughter, how she has helped her relationship with son Vir evolve, and being ready for motherhood at 48

Actor Mandira Bedi with four-year-old Tara. Pics/ Ashish Rane
I have often been asked how I can multitask, and strike a work-life balance, despite my hectic professional career. I used to say, it's because I have only one husband. Then came, "I have only one son". Now, I have two children, and my work has picked up again [after the lockdown]. I am travelling and shooting at least two days a week. To do this while being a parent to two kids… Man!
But, Raj [Kaushal, husband] and I had long thought of adoption. It was when we were in fact, dating, that we had first discussed it. We thought it was a cool thing to want to do. But, to build the resolve to adopt a child and follow through, we realised, was a different story. My first child, Vir, was born late. It was already 2011 and I realised that my biological clock was ticking. We had been married 12 years before he came along. But, we had known that we'd go through with adopting a child, and finally managed to start the process three years ago. According to CARA's [Central Adoption Resource Authority] rules, when the combined age of both parents is above 90, they cannot adopt a newborn baby. But, Raj and I were fine with that, since we were keen on a toddler.
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