My friend and I have been struggling to maintain our friendship, and I think it’s because he doesn’t know how he feels about me. I used to be in a relationship that ended a few months ago and, since then, he has been trying to say things that are almost flirtatious. I don’t know how to react because I have never looked at him from this perspective. I’m not saying I will reject him, but I need to know where things stand so I can see how I feel. Should I ask him a direct question? My fear is this may open a can of worms and ultimately destroy our friendship, which is why I am really confused. What should I do about this?
The possibility of this turning into an awkward situation depends upon the kind of friendship you have. If you are capable of asking your friend a direct question and being honest about where things stand, this may be the best way out. If there’s something on your mind, tell him about it and point out why you would appreciate some clarity. If you’re unsure about how to react, tell him that too and ask for time. It’s okay to be confused, but it’s also important to convey how you’re feeling as clearly as possible because that is the only way to avoid any misunderstanding.

My boyfriend wants to break up with me because I can’t commit to marriage just yet. I don’t know what to do because we agreed to this. He knew I wanted to wait, but says his parents are putting a lot of pressure on him. Should I agree even if I don’t think I am ready for this commitment?
This isn’t a decision about going out for a meal; it’s about doing something life-altering and shouldn’t be taken lightly. If your boyfriend isn’t willing to accept your conditions now, you will be accepting this for all the wrong reasons. Ask 
yourself if acceptance under these circumstances can turn into resentment.