A friend of mine was at a party a few weeks ago and ended up telling me that he had a crush on me. I don’t know how serious he was because we had both been drinking, so I didn’t take it seriously. Since that evening, we have met a few times, but he has not repeated what he said and I don’t know if I should bring it up. I don’t know how I feel about him, so I am not sure if I reciprocate his feelings, but I also think this is something we should talk about to figure out if there’s something between us that we have not considered before. What should I do?
You’re overthinking this. If you want to air it out, ask him a direct question. However, if you want to figure out if there’s something here, ask yourself honest questions about what you want first. It’s possible that this was just the alcohol talking, but the only way to avoid a misunderstanding is to talk about things when you are both sober. If he doesn’t recall that conversation, you will have your answer, and this won’t be an awkward issue between either of you going forward.

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for two years now and he has begun planning our future together. The problem is, I just don’t feel as strongly about this as he does. It makes me feel like a horrible person, because I love him and know he cares about me deeply. Should I tell him to take things slowly or will this cause a rift between us?
A relationship is about two people figuring things out together, and this includes setting the pace of how you want things to evolve. If you feel something, your feelings are valid, and you can always talk about them because a healthy relationship will give you that space. If it causes a rift, it’s a sign that you both need to work on this some more.