I have been spending time with a guy who is great to be around. We met online, decided to have dinner, and have turned it into a regular meeting. I think he’s amazing and we have chemistry, but he doesn’t see it and says he just likes spending time with me. It’s driving me crazy because I don’t know why he can’t see what I’m seeing. It’s starting to frustrate me, and I am thinking of stopping these dates because it’s going nowhere. Should I keep meeting him in the hope that he will change his mind, or am I wasting time?
It sounds as if you are both very clear about what you’re looking for. You want a relationship with him and he wants a friend. If there are no common expectations, all you can do is hope, provided you do so with your eyes open. You may have perfectly valid reasons, but a relationship involves two people and, at this point, he isn’t on the same page. If you can’t see him as a friend, you should be honest about that before your frustration turns into something you can’t control.

My boyfriend recently asked me about marriage and I freaked out. He has been keeping his distance from me since that conversation. I know I overreacted, but I don’t know how to tell him that I just don’t think we’re at that point in our relationship. I’m afraid he will break up with me if he doesn’t see a future. What should I do?
If he is avoiding you, that is immature. You can’t skirt around the issue by worrying about what he may or may not do. If you don’t think you’re ready for that conversation and are afraid to say it out loud, this isn’t a strong or stable relationship, and you will both have to come to terms with that. Wanting a future together is normal, but there has to be dialogue about where things stand and how you both see this relationship.