I don’t know if I should dump my boyfriend just because he is a needy person. We have been dating for around four months now and he can’t seem to leave me alone. He calls every three hours or so, wants to meet often, and generally enjoys spending time with me. I like him a lot and the attention was great at the start, but I’m also wondering about his personal life and if he has no one else to spend more time with. He says he has friends, but I have not met any of them, and it feels as if I am way more important to him than he is to me. I know this makes me sound cruel, but I’m just wary of him becoming too possessive and ruining things. How do I manage this?
Setting boundaries is critical for any relationship, and you have to learn to push back when you feel uncomfortable about too much attention. He may want to talk all the time, but you have the right to decide when you want to participate too. If you have questions about his personal life, including his friendships with other people, ask him about it because you have a right to know. If you think his behaviour is strange, call it out and ask for an explanation, or state your case and tell him what you like or dislike. The early stages of any relationship are about getting to know someone and figuring out the dynamics between you two. Use this time to evaluate what you’re seeing and make your own position clear. Time will reveal the rest as far as his possessiveness is concerned.

My boyfriend makes me feel as if he wants to break up with me but never comes out and says it. I don’t know what to do.
If you are feeling unwanted, what stops you from asking him a direct question about where this is going? It may be a difficult conversation, but it is an important one.