Dear Diana,
I have been married for 16 years. I have been loyal to my wife and not gone astray. We have a 14-year-old son. Last few months, however, I have been working in close association with a young female colleague who is over two decades younger to me. She joined early this year. She makes me laugh a lot. When she is around, I am in a happy space. I can connect with her. Am I in love with her? I can't take my eyes off her. It is not that there is trouble on the homefront, but I have to admit that my wife and I do not have the same spark we used to have earlier. At the same time, I do not want to ruin my work front by making my feelings known to this young girl. Nor do I want to be part of office gossip. I also don't want to upset my wife. What do I do? I also know that she has a boyfriend because she keeps talking about him.
— Tarun

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