Dear Diana,
I am in an unhappy marriage. My husband and I lead our own lives though we stay in the same house. Neither of us have taken steps to separate. We have two teenaged children. Recently, one of my married friends sat next to me and our legs were touching. He is an amazing guy and we get along well. I think about him all the time and feel attracted to him. Am I in love again?
— Geetika


Illustration/Amit Bandre 

Dear Geetika,
First of all you are married and so is he. So anything that you and he plan means you are indulging in an extramarital affair. So before you take the plunge remember what you are getting into and the repercussions it will have. Though you are in a loveless marriage, you may be sticking around for the sake of the kids instead of going through a divorce. If you are attracted to this guy decide what you want to do with your life and act accordingly.