Dear Diana,
I'm 30 and getting married to this wonderful man. I have had physical relationships with two guys in the past. I am ashamed of it. I'm afraid if my hubby-to-be finds out, how he will react. I am terrified of him learning about my affairs. Should I tell him of my past or just be quiet. I am not in touch with the two guys nor do I know about their whereabouts. My hubby-to-be has not asked me about my affairs nor have I questioned him.
— Chitra

 

Dear Chitra,
It all depends how mature your guy is. Some guys start suspecting their wives when they are told the truth. Some are so immature that they start doubting their wives. You are not in contact with the two guys, so it is not that you are two-timing anyone. That was your past. You have moved on and so have these guys. He has not told you about his past nor has he asked you about yours, so it is better that you keep mum. Forgot the past and begin a new life with a new guy.