Dear Diana,
I'm 26 and fallen for a good-looking friend of mine who is straight. He is well aware of the situation and is really understanding, but he doesn't indulge me nor ostracise me. It's evident that he doesn't want to create a scene out of my feelings for him. I am now at a point where I feel miserable and depressed every time he is with his girlfriend and not me.
— Jude

 

Dear Jude,
You are well aware that this relationship is not going to go anywhere. Despite knowing that he is straight and has a girlfriend, you are still pining for him. It is obvious that you are going to experience heartbreak. Before things get worse, move on. As this person is your friend, he is being understanding and not reacting to anything. Refrain from getting more serious about him and look for another soulmate.