Dear Diana,
I’m 26 and in love with two girls at my workplace. I don’t have a clue which one is the right one for me. I just find both of them amazing to give up one for another. I haven’t had the courage to speak to either of them yet for over a year. How should I choose?
— Akshat

 
Illustration/ Amit Bandre

Dear Akshat,
It appears that you have to learn what love is before you start throwing the word around. You are simply attracted to them. At 26, it is time you left teen infatuations far behind. For over a year,you have not mustered enough courage to speak to either of them. What are you waiting for? There are lots of common talk to talk about office from work to bosses or even the kind of tea and coffee served. First, strike a conversation with them and then decide who to choose. You are living in your dream world spinning fantasies about the two. Take a reality check and get to know the girls. You don’t even know what is on their mind, so get talking pronto.

Diana will solve it!
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