Dear Diana,
I am 23 and I’m fed up of my life. My mom and boyfriend keep venting their anger on me. Even after being nice to them, they always hurt me with their words and action. I’m tired of being the scapegoat for them. I feel at least my boyfriend should support me, but he seldom does. He always finds a reason to be angry with me. I really hope he understands what it means to go through their humiliation.
— Urvashi


Illustration/Amit Bandre 

Dear Urvashi,
I can understand your predicament as everyone around is blaming you for everything — whether it is your fault or not. You seem to lack self-confidence and low self-esteem. People tend to pick on those who have no confidence, because they will not retaliate. You deserve to be treated with respect. Next time say how you feel when your mom or boyfriend berate you. All this while you are taking it lying down so they continue to abuse you. Stop being the doormat and speak up.