Dear Diana,
I was in a relationship with a guy for almost two years. He recently broke up with me as he wanted marriage soon. I was not ready for it because my family was unaware of the relationship. They are lining up guys for an arranged marriage. I did not want to disappoint my parents by choosing a guy who they may not approve of. I was afraid to tell them about my affair and they had no clue.
— Heer

 

Dear Heer,
What your guy has done is the right thing. He wanted commitment and you were dilly-dallying about it. Obviously he felt like a fool and cheated at the end. You were leading him on, but did not want to get serious. He was genuine and caring while you were not. He has lost the trust he had in you, so it was better for him to go his way. Even after going around with him for two years, you did not muster courage to inform your colleagues. You have hurt him and let him down. There is no point looking back as he has moved on.