Dear Diana,
My wife has been having an affair with a guy at her work place. I had no clue till one of my cousins spotted them at a cinema hall. She had gone with her college pals and was was shocked to see that they could not keep their hands off each other. I have been married for two years. I am shattered and still coming to terms with what my wife has done. She would often work late hours and I now understand that it was this guy, and not work, that kept her busy. She kept lying and coming up with excuses whenever I felt things were amiss. I have accosted her and told her to reveal the truth. Initially, she cooked up a story of mistaken identities, but later admitted to the relationship. My world has gone topsy-turvy. I have also had a verbal spat with the guy at her workplace. He is also married. He says he is caught in an unhappy marriage and found solace in her arms. They are apologetic and say they won’t meet again. My wife has already quit her job. I really don’t know what to do.
— Neeraj