Dear Diana,
I've been with my girlfriend since my college days. We are 26 now. When I talk about marriage, my girlfriend shows no interest. She tells me her folks think that I am just her buddy. I feel I'm wasting my time with her. Should I call it quits? I feel she will end up marrying someone of her family's choice.
— Aniruddh


Illustration: Amit Bandre 

Dear Aniruddh,
Marriage can happen later, but at least there should be commitment. Your girlfriend is in no mood to even admit that you are her guy. It looks like she is just using you as you are showering her with attention. What stopped her from telling her parents all this while that you are more than just a friend? Give her time to think and if she is not ready to commit, I suggest you break off with her and find someone who reciprocates your love.