Dear Diana,
There is this girl I know, but we haven't met each other yet. We are online buddies. We are comfortable with each other and keep chatting throughout the day. She gives enough hints to turn our friendship into something more, but I am reluctant as I do not want to disclose my identity. She has now sent me her snapshot and asked for mine. I reciprocated by sending her a friend's photo instead.
— Srinivas


Illustration/Amit Bandre 

Dear Srinivas,
This girl has fallen for you, but you are taking her for a merry ride. She is serious about you while you seem to be in it for cheap thrills. It is clear that you are not interested in her and it was just time pass that you are indulging in online. You need to tell her the truth and send your real snapshot to her. Apologise for what you have done and make amends. If you are not interested in her, tell her so right now. Don't lead her on and then do a turnaround. You are looking for fun, but she is committed.