Dear Diana,
I'm 24 and jobless. After I lost my job, I stayed with a friend two nights in a row, but made sure my parents knew about it. But when I got home they scolded me and told me I need to get my life together. They still treat me like a kid and reprimand me. My mother tells me she wants me to be independent, but how can I when they are always hovering around?
— Daniyal

 

Dear Daniyal,
Your parents are concerned about you and want the best for you. You might find their behaviour irritating and unjustified, but they want you to be happy. Looks like there is a gap between you and them. Sit down and talk to them about how you feel about their behaviour. Explain to them why you feel so and I am sure they will understand. Also, remember there are several ups and downs in life.