Dear Diana,
I am in a relationship with a woman for the past five years. She recently took up a job in Abu Dhabi while I am based in Mumbai. Due to the distance between us, I'm extremely frustrated. On top of that, I can't visit her because I have some immigration issues. She is well-settled there and has no intentions of coming to Mumbai. We have started fighting over the phone. Our long- distance relationship just does not seem to be working.
— Sumer

 

Dear Sumer,
She does not want to come to Mumbai, you cannot travel there due to certain issues. So if you want to continue in the relationship, you need to stop getting frustrated. She seems to have made herself comfortable and has no intentions of being with you anytime soon. So either you play the waiting game or decide to go your seperate ways. If you want to be in a long distance relationship, you need to give your partner a lot of space and have loads of patience.