Dear Diana,
I got married a year ago. It was an arranged marriage. I will not say that all is well in our marriage as we have been having our share of differences. I have been overlooking it, as in most relationships there are ups and downs. But recently my wife came up with a weird proposition. She wants me to take up a job abroad. She has even zeroed in on the countries I should find one. It should either be Dubai, London or New York. She feels several of her girl pals are settled abroad and she, too, needs to take off. I have tried to explain to her that it is not as easy as it sounds. I am well settled in my career and work in a multinational. I feel I earn well to maintain a decent standard of living. Relocating means having to start things afresh from scratch. How do I knock sense into her head?
— Vinod