Dear Diana,
I like this guy at my workplace. I have known him since the past three years. We get along well and there is nothing we don’t share. He knows everything about me and I know everything about him. I assumed that I was his girl. Last week, he told me that he had found that someone special. I thought he would finally express his love for me. But I felt like a fool when he showed me his girl’s snapshots. It was someone his parents had found for him. Ever since, I don’t feel like talking to him.
— Tamara

Dear Tamara,

You were a fool to not express your feelings for him earlier. Three years is a long time. This guy just did not look at you in a special way. It is obvious that he considered you just a dear pal and nothing more. Move on with your life. and next time remember to be expressive to avoid a heartbreak.