Dear Diana,
I am having an affair with a guy in my neighbourhood. We are both married, but enjoy the stolen moments we share when our partners are away. He makes me feel special like no one else does. I have never felt like this before for any guy. As he works from home, he has a lot of free time on hand. His wife teaches at a coaching class, so in the afternoons she is not at home — the time when we have our rendezvous. At the same time, I’m concerned about what will happen if my husband and 14-year-old daughter come to know about our relationship. I don’t want to make things messy for my husband and child. But at the same time, I want to enjoy my married life as well as my affair. I want my husband as well as my lover. Can I keep both these worlds of mine hidden from each other? I really do not know for how long I can keep going with this guy in my neighbourhood before we get caught. What should I do?
-- Anamika