Dear Diana,
I have fallen in love with this guy in my neighbourhood. We live in the same housing complex. He is married with a seven-year-old child. He tells me he is in an unhappy marriage. I visit him at his place when his wife and kid are away. Sometimes he comes home when my family is away. I am single and work part time at a coaching class. We get along like a house on fire. If we cannot meet, we keep talking to each other on the phone whenever possible. I’ve never felt like this before with any other man. We are having a physical relationship, but I am scared to even think what will happen when his wife and other neighbours find out about our affair. So far we have not been caught, but I know one day we will. I have told him to tell his wife, but he does not know how to tell her. Is he in love with me or is he just using me for sex?
- Gargi