Priyadarshini Chatterjee says that love should not be a word used frivolously, like many tend to these days It's amazing how sometimes we're overwhelmed by the simple pleasures of life. Like a few words of reassurance, a compliment, a look of the eyes that tells you it's one of genuine concern, a squeeze of the hand, a kiss, a hug or even a phone call. <img alt="" src="/imagedata/2009/oct/pleasures.jpg" border="5" /> It's a pity that we often overlook them in our daily grind and look for more expensive means to tackle our depression, insecurity, self doubt, self pity, and the works. And thanks to our myopic vision, the psychologists, marriage counsellors, education counsellors, and whathaveyous are having a field day out there. Relationships and marriages are the worst sufferers. They are falling apart like nine pins because neither can take the stress at work and obviously they don't have the patience or tolerance to hear each other out amicably once back home. The war's given up even before it's begun. They agree a third party intervention is essential to sort their personal matters out. And sharing confidential information with third parties always comes at a price. A rather hefty one at that. But no worries, there's enough disposable income to waste on the quirks. One's pain and loss provides vicarious emotional and financial pleasure to another. "Am in love" is a phrase that has been duly replaced with "Am going steady" "or am in a relationship". Being in love, feeling the warmth of his/her presence, wallowing in love, blinded by love are all passu00e9 and one runs the risk of being branded an emotional fool. It's all about a "workable relationship" now. Will it or won't it work. Simple. Move aside heart. Step in head. Don't dream about those never-ending walks into the sunset or the cosy rain-soaked cuddle. Stay awake and just do it. (Ok , Ok, I know you do much more. Good for you!) Don't just plunge in and say "I love you." Think of the kind of "investments" you need to make and the various "exit plans" you must keep handy before saying "I Do". Alas, why didn't I think of these ever? Haven't made any investments, nor do I have an exit plan. Just plunged into the deep end and swimming my way through. Is my future doomed? Or am I just being an incurable romantic? At the cost of being sneered at, I'd still say: People, save that money, take some time off to sit down and look into each other's eye, hold that hand, smile, hug and kiss. And, when you are miles away, just call. Priceless ways of working wonders on that mind and heart.

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