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'Arranged marriage scares me'
Updated On: 09 March, 2014 06:21 AM IST | | Ask Roopa
Arranged marriage scares me
Q. I have had one serious emotional, romantic attachment in life and it didn’t result the way I wanted it to. I am tired of being alone. When will I find my soul mate and do you see a happy marriage for me? I don’t want to go through the arranged marriage and the idea of meeting someone with the intention of checking him out as a marriage prospect is off putting.
A. You may be against the whole arranged marriage scene and I can sympathise with that but most likely you will go through that and come out in flying colours. I see for you a happy marriage as you have drawn a happy family card, the four of Wands, in a prominent position in your spread. From your cards I feel that you may have to go through the arranged marriage situation which you might feel is humiliating for you at that time. Initially you may resent it and be hurt with it. But you will find a person that you really like through the arranged marriage way. According to Tarot Numerology you are a combination of numbers 6 and 7. Number 6 is represented by the card of The Lovers which explains the importance that you have of love and relationships. Number 6 the number of harmony and love, of relationship and togetherness, of choice and romance. Number 7 is represented by The Chariot. It is a card of victory, of success and of a strong will. This indicates that you will be able to forge ahead in whatever you choose to do.
Want to get back with ex-girlfriend
Q. I have been unsuccessful in love twice, and was shattered the last time. This girl came along and changed the way I thought and the way I looked at life. After three years in the relationship with her she recently called it quits. Though I have not been an ideal partner and more than once hurt her, I still love her like crazy. I am ready to mend my ways and start over again. I also have a very unfulfilling and dismal professional life. I don’t have any great friends either. I feel like a complete failure at times. What are my chances of getting back with her?
A. I see from your cards that you are sad and unhappy. You have drawn the five of Cups which indicates this. The Emperor reversed indicates that you lost control and behaved badly and immaturely which upset her a lot. There are delays and you could feel insecure and jealous as you have drawn the eight of Wands reversed. She may not return your calls or answer your letters. But if you persist then victory will be yours. For this you need to pursue her. Please don’t give up even if the situation seems dismal. Please allow her the freedom to have a different point of view and respect her views. Your soul card is the Wheel of Fortune that is constantly changing. In your life you will be dealing with constant change. Regarding your professional life, you will get a break. You have drawn the Ace of Swords which indicates success. The card of the World at a distance suggests freedom from wants or liberation.


