The modern dating world is rife with new terms and even different kinds of red flags. While the latter always takes the limelight in dating, the other kind is equally important. The dating world is slowly shifting, and people are finally appreciating the green flags too. Indian dating app QuackQuack ran a special survey among women to understand the understated, overlooked, and unexpectedly charming green flags that make them stop in their tracks and say, "he might be the one". The app ran a poll among 7,930 women from metros, suburbs, and rural areas of India. Participants ranged between 22 and 35, spanning diverse professional fields, including IT, health, education, finance, marketing, and various other sectors, along with business owners and students. The app's founder and ceo, Ravi Mittal, commented, "In my experience of running a dating app for quite some time, when women talk about getting butterflies, they are not talking about unrealistic fairytale expectations or physical appearance. It's always the little things- we already know that effort and emotional intelligence are at the top of the list, but some subtle cues are considered green flags by women, for instance, a picture with a pet. It's amazing how something as simple as that can fetch you two times more matches." Pets in profile pictures29 per cent of women from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities exclaimed that a profile photo of a man including the picture of his pet, almost flexing how cute and proud he is of his fur baby, is an absolute green flag. About 3 in 4 women above 30 claimed it translates to emotional intelligence and someone who seems responsible enough to text back. Sheetal (32), an architect from Coonoor, said, "If a man is cradling a puppy or has a cat perched on his shoulder, I am sold. To me, it's instant proof that this man is nurturing and also potential father material. And if he has his pet's name listed in the bio, match!" Good grammarWhile some might think it's a bit obsessive, others believe that if you want to impress someone, the least you can do is string a sentence properly. 21 per cent of women between 22 and 28 explained that language does not matter, but grammar does. The survey clearly shows that women notice when you use "who" and "whom" correctly, use punctuation, and avoid using 'jk' and 'ikr'. Niharika, a 26-year-old software engineer, said, "I'm not a grammar Nazi; I'll not belittle you for bad grammar. It's just that, to me, clean grammar means you cared enough to double-check your text or bio. It's the effort that makes him a green flag for me." Mentioning mental health3,547 women above 27 revealed that men who openly talk about mental health, without getting preachy about it, are a true gem. In 2025, vulnerability is sexy, but what's sexier, according to these women, is a man who doesn't rush their match to open up. 4 in 6 women said, some men talk about mental health and therapy, and then go on to lecture about how everyone should be in therapy. But then there are some other men who clearly know the importance of mental health, and they casually mention benefiting from therapy, but never make you feel like you are lagging behind for not taking the same approach. According to the survey report, the second guy is a clear winner of the subtle profile green flag trend.
15 May,2025 05:29 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentAs time passes, relationships are constantly evolving. With that every person is also changing the way they perceive relationships. In a world where love is merely a swipe away now on the various dating apps, emotional fidelity is being pushed to the limits. While physical cheating may still be headline news, emotional fidelity is thriving in cyberspace. The most recent research from dating app Gleeden shows a 40 per cent of married Indians admitted they have a "digital affair". These "affairs" are not physical relationships but, rather, romantic interactions that are sexually suggestive and emotionally intimate with someone other than the person's spouse—completely online.Even more fascinating, almost 65 per cent of the respondents say they saw their virtual experiences as "harmless fun", and 37 per cent who acknowledged that emotional infidelity is worse than physical infidelity, confessed that they still carry on their texting. These contradictions are contributing to a silent transformation of how contemporary Indian marriages are dealing with desire, boredom, and emotional discontent. Looking to the future, stay married? The paradox of digital disloyaltyThe app's data has shown that a whopping 72 per cent of digital cheaters do not intend to leave their marriages. They are using these online connections as an escape hatch - an emotional spa day from the boredom or arguments of home life. Interestingly, men between 30 years to 45 years were the busiest on the app, followed closely by women between the age groups of 25-40, suggesting a gender-neutral approach for digital validation and stimulation. One of the most astounding stats is that 56 per cent of women said they feel more "heard" and "valued" in their online affairs than in their reality. That is not flirting, that is emotional CPR. Flirting in airplane mode - It is all in the typing bubblesUnlike a traditional affair, digital flings do not require a hotel or a clandestine meeting. All that is needed is a username and Wi-Fi. In fact, the app survey shows a 30 per cent increase in user activity post-pandemic, when lockdowns forced people to live close together - and often emotionally disconnected - with their spouse. What starts with a harmless emoji or late-night message quickly escalates to full-blown emotional affair. 49 per cent of users admitted to having someone to text every day, flirt with, or share secrets with - without ever seeing them in person. And herein lies the rub: digital affairs feel safer, guilt-free, and "not really cheating" - until that moment when it does. Love in the age of notifications — why we are hardwired for distractionPsychologists agree that dopamine, the "feel-good" chemical for the brain, is key in online infidelity. Each time people receive a flirtatious message, a heart emoji, or a suggestive photo, they trigger a neurological reaction very similar to physical intimacy. The app's behavioural insights team also found that users mostly access the app between 10 pm and 1 am — when most partners are sleeping and digital lovers are awake. These newly minted cheaters aren't simply bored in these late-night hours. Of those surveyed, 41 per cent reported that they felt emotionally neglected, 33 per cent reported lacking excitement, and 22 per cent reported that they missed feeling attractive or wanted. No password, no trust — should couples be scared?The new notion of digital affairs is giving rise to urgent questions in marriages in India: where does fidelity start and end? Is lack of emotions a problem or not that physical? Should couples share passwords, or does that kill the romance? While the app has done some research on perceptions of digital affairs, the survey also reported that 68 per cent of users said they would feel betrayed if their partner had a similar online affair even though they themselves are simultaneously having one. The asymmetry isn't surprising, but it's human. Marriage therapists are seeing more and more cases where the crisis does not stem from sex, but rather from instant chats, typing bubbles at midnight and hidden tabs on your browser.Breaking down "digital affairs"In today’s hyperconnected world, Dr Maitri Thakker, clinical psychologist at Lilavati Hospital in Bandra, says many of us spend hours immersed in online spaces—scrolling, sharing, messaging, or simply observing. "What often begins as casual interaction can, over time, evolve into deeper emotional entanglements leading to "digital affairs"," she adds. The uniqueness about a digital affair is that it isn’t defined by physical proximity but one that unfolds online. It unfolds through screens, she reminds, through private messages, emails, voice notes, or social media chats. And while it may not always involve overtly romantic or sexual exchanges, the emotional undercurrent is often intense, intimate, and, crucially, concealed.So, why do people engage in "digital affairs"? Dr Maitri explains, "At the heart of many digital affairs is an emotional need. People may find themselves feeling lonely, emotionally disconnected, or unacknowledged in their current relationships—whether with a partner, friend, or even within their family. Online platforms offer anonymity, instant gratification, and the illusion of safety. They provide a space to vent, to feel seen, or to experience excitement and validation—sometimes without the person fully realising the emotional investment they’re making."For some, the Mumbai-based mental health expert says it begins as innocent curiosity. For others, the said "affair" becomes a form of emotional coping—an escape from stress, conflict, or the pressures of everyday life. She adds, "The ability to ghost, block, or disengage also gives digital affairs a perceived sense of control, unlike the complexities of real-world connection." While the word may have a negative connotation, Dr Maitri says it is not just about couples. She dissects the misconception around it, saying, "While often discussed in the context of romantic relationships, digital affairs are not exclusive to couples. They can affect friendships, work dynamics, family connections, and even our relationship with ourselves. Emotional loyalty and presence are finite resources. When a large share is redirected toward a digital connection—especially in secret—it can create emotional distance in other important areas of life."
08 May,2025 07:31 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentMost often than not, every one of our friends has told us not to text our ex but we still end up doing it any way even though it is often labelled as a dumb mistake. Interestingly, many people are only starting to realise it was more nostalgia than a 3 am blunder. A recent survey has found that that online daters from India revealed that seeing an ex-match gives them a familiar rush -- that when there's history with a person and good vibes, recycling an old match sounds like a good plan. In a new survey by dating app QuackQuack, 2 in 7 daters admitted to revisiting old matches and shared that 'Nostalgia Matching' is now a full-blown trend. The survey was conducted at the end of April 2025 among 8546 active daters from metros, suburbs, and rural areas between the ages of 18 and 30. Participants were chosen from various professions, including IT, healthcare, education, sales and marketing, content creation, finance, and other sectors, along with a small section of business owners and students. The gender distribution was evenly split for a better understanding of how nostalgia matches work for both men and women. Sharing insights, the app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "People generally crave familiarity, and connecting with an ex-match gives them that sense of comfort and safety, even if things didn't turn out perfectly the first time. We are seeing that dating is no longer linear - it's becoming a full circle. Many are reconsidering old matches, not as a rebound but to explore the possibilities of reconnecting with someone with whom they had almost something special." Unfinished businessSome matches simply drift away - there's no ghosting, there's no breakup. It's just two people who did not put enough effort into the connection because work got crazy or things started to seem serious. About 27 per cent of men and women from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities shared that they have re-matched with people because their connection felt like unfinished business. While the connection timed out, their curiosity did not. "I came across an ex-match's profile, and suddenly, I felt a gush of emotions and nostalgia hit me like a brick. I immediately connected with her," said Manish, a 26-year-old content strategist from Haryana. Nostalgia matches mean less small talkConnecting with an ex-match means you can skip the small talk and go straight to the point, claimed 3 in 5 women between 25 and 30 years of age. There's no need for an awkward intro or asking, 'What's your favorite colour;' there's a better scope of hitting the deeper notes this time. The data also shows that a nostalgia match leads to two times longer chat sessions than an average fresh match. Gen-Z-approved romantic recyclingGen-Z's are all about recycling, and it extends to romance as well- 4 in 6 daters below 25 years are more open to romantic do-overs compared to 2 in 5 daters above 27 years of age, who are more inclined toward a "clean slate." More than 36 per cent of GenZ men from Tier 1 and 2 cities said they do not mind revisiting an old match that didn't work out and put in the effort as long as there's no toxic pattern involved. 28-year-old Piyush argued, "I, too, would like to re-match or look back on some connections, but it's the age. It leaves little room for error, let alone repeating one." Now is better than neverIt didn't work out once, does not mean it won't work out ever, commented more than 17 per cent of Gen-Z daters from metros. People get busy, life happens, and most importantly, people continue to change. Puja Trivedi (24) said, "It might not have been the right timing then, but don't write it off completely. I feel that timing is the biggest motivator of nostalgia matching. I have reconnected with forgotten matches because I believed that now is the right time for it."
05 May,2025 07:59 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentRelationships are not easy, and in fact, romantic ones are quite complex not only for singles but also those who are with their partners. While different generations may have their own perspectives, the awareness about the nature of them has also changed, leading many people to find their own kind of solace. Sybil Shiddell, relationship manager, Gleeden India, says, “We do not live in a world of intimacy limited to physical proximity. We live in a world where a late-night conversation feels like it’s worth more than a thousand silent dinners. Where, being seen, heard and understood even digitally can be an emotional tether. And that’s not betrayal. That's an unmet need. More than 66 per cent of Indian women on the app claim to have joined the app for emotional companionship and not to have an affair. It’s a telling statistic that reads the narrative backward. It’s not about betrayal. It’s about being there emotionally for someone who is in need of it and often when their partner has not been.” “It was just a chat” — which is so totally fineThe expert says, not every chat is flirty, and not all flirting is predatory. Some just need a safe space to feel vulnerable, expressive or alive again. When someone says, "It was just a chat", usually it means, "I finally felt heard". The app's data bears this emotional complexity out: almost 78 per cent of their users chat regularly, not just sexually. These are not steamy flings. Such are stories told, feelings affirmed, stress unloaded to someone who really listens. It’s often not so much about who the person is but how they make you feel. Privacy is not secrecy — it is self-preservationNot everyone who protects their phone is hiding something dirty. Sometimes it’s a deeply personal conversation, in which they’re finally able to unload, free from judgment, dismissal or ridicule. Data from the app's research backs up this emotional nuance: 63 per cent of their users have ongoing, non-sexual chats. These are not steamy flings. These are stories told, feelings validated, stress unloaded to someone who really listens. Often, it’s not so much who the person is, but how they make you feel. The 'Right to Privacy': How to talk and whyLet’s dispel a myth: Not everyone who protects their phone is concealing something scandalous. Often, it’s a private moment of releasing something heavy, a conversation in which they’re no longer judged, dismissed or belittled. According to research by the app, 1 out of 3 users utilise chats for emotional support, not necessarily for any physical pursuit. They’re not being dishonest, they’re being defensive of the one domain where their feelings can breathe. Not betrayal, it’s boundary-setting, occasionally essential for survival in an emotionally desiccated environment. A heart emoji is more than flirtingThat heart emoji or that “You looked lovely today” text in your inbox? It isn’t just about sexual desire. At times it’s about validation. The kind that says, "You’re still important". And no, that doesn’t mean they love their partner less, it means they are trying to love themselves a little more. The research has further found that more than 60 per cent of emotional bonds start as light, positive exchanges on social media. Why is this, do you think? A compliment, a laugh, or a shared meme – all examples to show how humans acknowledge each other. It isn’t deception. It is dopamine working its magic. Emotional partners are remedies and not replacementsYour partner forming some kind of bond with another person does not have to be viewed as the end of your relationship. In fact, it can be some form of help being sought. Most people who stray don’t do so because of a lack of love. It’s actually more about them being lonely. The app's survey reveals that approx 55 per cent of users did not feel acknowledged by their partner. Emotional infidelity is never premeditated. It’s a by-product of silence, unmet needs, and routine. The other person isn’t necessarily the enemy. They are simply the reflection. Shiddell explains, "Perhaps some changes regarding the definition of fidelity need to be made. Remaining faithful does not equate to emotional singularity. Sometimes, being human means requiring multiple emotional outlets. This doesn’t signify that love is losing meaning; rather, suggests the fact that we are evolving. This raises one question: What other emotional needs are hiding behind words left unspoken?"
02 May,2025 03:49 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentAs the dating world evolves, men and women are taking their time to see how they get along with their matches, and women seem to be taking the charge to make better choices, according to a new survey. The new survey shows that Indian women have finally found their worth, and they are not settling for just 'any' match that shows the bare minimum of kindness and effort. The survey by dating app QuackQuack has revealed that 3 in 5 female daters have become significantly more selective while finding a match on dating apps. From set expectations and green flag radar, women are moving towards a healthy dating culture. The dating app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, commented, "Selective is not equivalent to picky or demanding - it only means female daters are finally realising that they too can get what their heart desires, without settling. We are seeing more of our female users leading with clarity, and it has changed the power dynamics on dating apps and definitely led to a better and more sustainable match rate." The findings are based on a consumer survey conducted among 10,540 active female daters ranging between 18 and 35 from Tier 1, 2, and 3 Indian cities. Responses were collected via online polls and behavioral data among participants from various professional fields, including healthcare, education, IT, finances, marketing, art, and more, ensuring a comprehensive report. Say bye to bare minimumsThe midnight "you up?" texts and meaningless chats that ultimately fizzle out are so last season. Modern Indian women are focused on the Emotional Quotient (EQ) of their matches, with over 38 per cent of women from both metros and suburbs disclosing that attributes like height or having a six-pack are no longer the deciding factors in attraction. Sure, physical traits might add a little extra charm, but mostly because they hint at something deeper: the emotional maturity and understanding that taking care of one's appearance does not make them any less manly. Ishika (28) from Delhi comments, "Dating apps give you a lot of choices, but finding the one that clicks is on us. You have to take the time to see how well someone treats you; a few compliments or on-and-off texting should not be enough. I personally care to see how my match behaves after the initial excitement of talking to someone new is over." Red flag, green flagA few years ago, women might have been more focused on red flags, but the narrative is slightly different now. 3 in 6 women shared that red flags might be inevitable in a person because no one is perfect - it is the greens that matter. QuackQuack's survey shows that 31 per cent of women between 18 and 35 now evaluate profiles more minutely, focusing on green flags that align with what they are looking for. Among the top desired qualities, lifestyle, how they treat people in general, and compatible values are on the top. Nimisha, a 33-year-old doctor, said, "Earlier, when someone's bio described their personality with something as generic as a travel enthusiast and movie buff, I wouldn't give them a chance. But now, I realise that was shallow of me. It's okay if that's what they like; I am more focused on the real things, like how kind they are or their general outlook." Open about 'looking for something serious'In a refreshing shift, 42 per cent of women now openly mention they are looking for something serious - not casually exploring or let's see where things go - in this big pivot, women are now happily stating their desire without the fear of coming off as 'too much'. Diya Jain (27) from Mumbai shared, "If my wish to find something real is too much for someone, it only makes it easier for me to cross out matches that won't work for sure. I believe mentioning that is a powerful move -- I set the rules, and my matches should make a move only if they are on the same page." Vetting over rushingThe app's consumer behaviour data shows while men match more, women tend to spend twice more time on a potential match's profile before sending a like. It is their idea of vibe check but with a serious tone. 2 in 5 women below 25 said they would rather match less and protect their peace and energy. Sambhavna (21) from Hyderabad said, "I believe in quality matches, even if that means I find one match in three to four months. It should work out in the end; numbers don't mean anything."
26 April,2025 06:23 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentThe modern dating world has its lingo- breadcrumbing, benching, and whatnot. As navigating relationships is already tough, dealing with these terms can often be difficult and overwhelming for people but seems like Gen-Z and Millennials are finding their own unique way through them. While these sound ominous, Indian dating app QuackQuack's survey suggests that the truth is much more hopeful. Some of these trends might be toxic, but the fact that daters identified and named them tells a story of emotional awareness and mindful dating. Both Gen-Z and Millennials are growing more self-assured about maneouvering romantic connections, even though the two generations take a slightly different route. The consumer study, conducted at the beginning of April 2025, surveyed over 10,000 users between 18 and 35 from metros, suburbs, and rural areas. Daters were asked to share their experience with dating trends and how they work around and through them. Respondents were split between Gen-Z and Millennials to get a better idea of the two generations' methods of dealing with new and coming trends. "What amazes us most is the way both generations are evolving," commented the dating app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal. "As the survey shows, the two generations have a gap in the way they approach dating, but, somewhere, it gets bridged by a common factor- they are both becoming increasingly aware and their willingness to beat all odds and find genuine connections. Moreover, we are seeing a cultural shift- mystery was cool back in the days, but clarity is way cooler today." Setting the standards - Gen-Z is on itA finding from the survey that stood out is Gen-Z's attitude towards mixed signals and unclear intentions- they called them out and set them right for themselves and the generations to come. 43 per cent of daters between 20 and 25 showed extreme emotional maturity when they shared how trends like breadcrumbing, benching, or ghosting - that leave daters stuck in a loop can be easily countered by setting proper boundaries. Tonya (23) from Delhi said, "We are not afraid of asking, 'Is this going anywhere?' Because if it isn't, why am I being breadcrumbed? And I think it's rubbing off on the once-polite Millennials, too. My sister is 28, and recently, I heard her break off a friendship because they were only around when they needed her and never else." What do Millennials bring to the table?While Gen-Z might have mastered transparency and boundaries, Millennials are still winning on the emotional front - they are known for their thoughtfulness. The study shows that 4 in 5 Millennials are more mindful about labeling a connection, as compared to 2 in 6 Gen-Z daters. Both sides have presented their argument, and the conclusion shows two major reasons - one, Millennials are at a crossroads where their age leaves little margin of error in relationships; second, these daters bring more emotional depth to dating than any other. Adar, a 30-year-old professor from Bengaluru, said, "Yes, age factors in, but I would like to point out we were like this even when we were younger. We have seen the slow period with no instant gratifications and also the fast era - we can spot red flags just like the Gen-Zs, but our emotional depth drives us to find greens in people rather than reds." Decline of toxic trendsThe survey comes with a dose of positive news: according to more than 28 per cent of GenZs and 33 per cent of Millennials from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities, there's a steady decline in toxic trends as compared to the last five years. Awareness around these behaviours and the decision to not settle for less has led to more daters opting for intentional interactions, which, in turn, ushered in the healthy dating era. Evolution of love languageWhile 31 per cent of Millennial daters between 30 and 35 shared they still love a well-worded text message to express their feelings, Gen-Zs have moved on to emojis and memes. But interestingly, 2 in 5 Millennials below 30 are catching up to the new love language. Anvita (28) from Mumbai said, "Somewhere, between all these Gen-Z and Millennial differences, we have the same goal. We all want to say the right thing and say it in the right way."
25 April,2025 03:05 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentMadhuri Dixit’s husband, Dr. Sriram Nene, has opened up about the challenges relationships face in today's world. In a recent social media post, he revealed the key factors contributing to the growing frequency of relationship breakdowns, offering insightful perspectives on the complexities of modern relationships. Dr. Nene shared that one of the biggest reasons relationships fail today is the lack of investment. In the caption of the post, he explained, “In my experience, one of the biggest reasons relationships fail is because we stop investing in them. It’s easy to get caught up in life and forget that relationships need time, effort, and real presence. They don’t grow on autopilot—you’ve got to show up, listen, and understand what the other person truly needs. I’ve learned that the strongest connections are built through small, consistent actions. So give your time, put in the effort, and keep choosing each other—every single day.” In the video, Nene could be heard saying, “We don’t invest in relationships. I have found that whether it is with the children, with your pets, with your family members, or with your spouse. The main thing is you have to take the time to develop a relationship to understand what each person’s needs are. And you have to give in order to get. So, the idea is to invest in time as well as in effort to make a relationship work.” View this post on Instagram A post shared by Dr. Shriram Nene (@drneneofficial) Notably, Dr. Sriram Nene, cardiothoracic surgeon, regularly shares insightful and informative videos on various health and wellness topics, offering his expertise to his followers. He also gives them a glimpse into his personal life, sharing moments from his daily routine and family life on Instagram, allowing fans to connect with him on a more personal level. Madhuri Dixit tied the knot with Shriram Nene on October 17, 1999, in a traditional wedding ceremony held in Southern California, at the home of her elder brother. The couple are proud parents to two sons, Arin and Ryan. For the unversed, Madhuri and Nene’s love story began with an attempt at matchmaking by Madhuri's brother, Ajit Dixit. Although initially reluctant, Madhuri was intrigued when she met Shriram at a party and was pleasantly surprised by his unfamiliarity with her fame. After living in the US for several years, the couple eventually made their way back to India. This story has been sourced from a third party syndicated feed, agencies. Mid-day accepts no responsibility or liability for its dependability, trustworthiness, reliability and data of the text. Mid-day management/mid-day.com reserves the sole right to alter, delete or remove (without notice) the content in its absolute discretion for any reason whatsoever
22 April,2025 12:42 PM IST | Mumbai | IANS"What are we?" might just be the trickiest question to answer while dating. The pace at which couples have a clear answer can either be a game of patience or a race against time- it depends on who you ask. Indian dating app QuackQuack recently conducted a survey and the finding shows that while for some, the talking stage to commitment can be a slow brew, with a lot of messages and meme exchanges spread out over a month, for others, the realisation of "where's this going?" comes as quickly as making a cup of instant coffee. The recent study by the app gives insight into how long it takes a typical Indian dater to go from chatting to committed- responses of 9,578 singles and couples across Tier-1, 2, and 3 cities were analysed to understand this timeline. Participants ranged between 18 and 35 and spanned from various professional fields, including marketing, law and order, finance, IT, healthcare, social media content creation, education and academics, and entrepreneurship. The app's founder and CEO Ravi Mittal commented, "The timeline of defining a relationship varies from person to person. While three months remains a popular timeline for most users, ensuring both partners are on the same page is more important than the timing, even if that means one of them has to wait a little longer for the other to get there." The three-month ultimatum34 per cent of active users of the dating app between 27 and 35 claimed that by the end of three months, matches either call it a day or call it a relationship. It is the unofficial "official deadline" for most Indian daters. By that time, if an online couple does not know where the connection is going, chances are they never will and eventually drift apart. Nayanika from Delhi said, "There's a rumour that online dating is full of situationships, but the reality is no one wants to be stuck in limbo, and this three-month mark seems to work best- by the third month, I need to know if we are wasting time or going exclusive." Social pressure leads to shortcutsExternal influence in India leads to a lot of pressure on young daters- the pressure to "settle down" has led several people to settle but for less. 3 in 5 women and 2 in 6 men complained that society's timeline, peer pressure, and family expectations can rush the commitment process. Rajeev (32), professor from Mumbai, said, "I have rushed into a commitment before because all my friends are married, and it did not pan out well. I would strongly suggest deciding your pace according to where your connection is standing and not by where you are standing in life." Age is not just a numberAge factors in while dating- the app's data shows Gen-Z takes it slow and tends to take longer to define their relationships, while Millennials are in an evident rush. 2 in 7 daters in the 18 to 22 age range revealed taking up to six months to commit, while 3 in 6 Millennials above 28 follow the three-months rule. 22-year-old Anisha from Bangalore commented, "I think we have the luxury to slow down and prioritise our personal goals too. But when it is the older daters, they have both more pressure and better understanding- on the one hand, they feel the stress to settle, and on the other hand, they also have the experience which helps them reach a clear decision sooner." The ninth wonderOnly about 9 per cent of daters disclosed labeling their relationship within the first two weeks of matching. While the "love at first LIKE" type relationships burn strong and fizzle soon, for these lucky daters, it started with intense chemistry and is still going strong with long-term potential. Nihal from Cochin, medical practitioner, shared, "I met Simran on the app, and during our first chat, I knew she was the one. We matched, met by the end of the week, and made it official. When it feels right, I don't see the reason to wait."
08 April,2025 10:46 AM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentHoli, the festival of colours, is now also a festival of connections. As the country gears up for celebrations, dating apps across India are seeing a surge in matches, interactions, and spontaneous meetups. Indian dating app, QuackQuack, revealed that their new survey shows 2 in 7 matches formed around the festival turned into real-life connections. The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, said, "Holi is all about embracing joy, which makes it an exciting time to begin something new. The new survey data shows that beyond flirting online and the festive spirit, many users are forming real relationships. We noticed that it happens often around auspicious days and group celebrations." The study was conducted by QuackQuack in the first week of March, with responses from more than 9,500 users from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities. Participants varied between 20 and 35 and belonged to a range of professions, including IT, healthcare, sales and marketing, social media content creators, finance, and more. Colour-coded connectionHoli has always been the perfect backdrop for chemistry and connection, and this year, in the digital dating world, GenZ singles have come up with a fun and unique new trend- daters are deciding compatibility based on colour choices. QuackQuack's data shows more than 21 per cent of matches initiated a conversation about "favorite gulal colours." Daters between 20 and 26 revealed people who chose red, blue, and yellow were categorized in the easy-going category. The ones who picked purple, green, and pink were put in the complicated category. If two users picked the same color, it was considered a sign to continue the match and see where it goes! Ishita from Gurgaon said, "It's nothing serious, just a cute way of finding your kind of people. The first category of people are ones who are happy with the basics, and the second category of people are more meticulous and specific. It was a fun little way of understanding and guessing each other's personality." Bhaang bonds and buddy systemQuackQuack revealed that Bhaang-fueled conversations have always been a Holi specialty, but this year, the interesting trend was how daters from Tier 1, 2, and 3 chose safety as their top priority. While over 3266 users from metros and suburbs disclosed starting a conversation with a stagnant match, they also revealed maintaining "the buddy system," where their closest friends would monitor the conversation to keep an eye out for red flags and warning bells. Tanmay (27) from Varanasi shared, "I decided to finally send that first message to my online crush, and I had my best friends reviewing all my messages, making sure I wasn't being inappropriate or "too out there" in any way." Pakka pyaar Vs Gulaal ghostersThis Holi, QuackQuack's female users explained how every festivity comes with its fair share of genuine connections and fleeting ones, too. While 9% of women revealed having met people who disappeared before the Holi colors could fade, and most of these were matches under 25, over 32% of women shared having met their perfect match and planning to meet IRL on Holi. Nimisha from Hampi said, "I met two people before Holi, one 25 and the other 29. I think the older ones are actually looking for serious connections while the younger men are still exploring. It's perfectly fine, and importantly, I struck up a great conversation with my second match." Holi safety checksWhile the festival of colour is famous for carefree fun, QuackQuack users maintained strict Holi safety checks. 19 per cent of men shared how their matches were insistent on public meetups and group events, and they also explained how that also takes off the pressure of a one-on-one setup. Sober Flirting was the trending word of the pre-Holi week.
13 March,2025 11:05 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentSingle women are setting fresh priorities in today’s evolving dating landscape, expecting genuine connections, shared values and a modern approach to chivalry that focuses on safety. According to a survey by dating app Tinder, 44 per cent of young female users in India are excited about meeting new people, with 38 per cent seeking new experiences. Interestingly, 29 per cent respondents appreciate the reduced pressure of finding a ‘happily ever after’. Here are some new rules that single women are prioritising. Respect over outdated gender roles According to the survey, 51 per cent of young female users say that keeping promises—like following through on a planned call or meeting on time—defines modern chivalry, proving that consistency beats mere gestures such as opening a door. Meanwhile, 36 per cent value being given full attention on a date over symbolic acts. While 31 per cent of single women expect basic respect for all genders and identities—such as using respectful language—as essential in dating, only 23 per cent consider an offer to pick up the tab on the first date a must. Safety as a standard More than half of respondents in India say that they would unmatch if they receive inappropriate messages, highlighting that respect truly begins with how one is treated. Not having clear profile pictures to identify a person is a big no when it comes to the dating app profile for more than half (53 per cent) of single women. Shirtless mirror selfies are also a no-go for more than a third of female users in the country. Connection and compatibility For 47 per cent of respondents, an incomplete profile is a big no—they want enough detail to see genuine interest and effort. Meanwhile, 37 per cent prefer profiles with multiple photos that showcase personality, and 35 per cent value shared interests and lifestyle. Additionally, 41 per cent say they dislike bios full of clichés, favouring originality, genuine self-expression and authenticity over generic phrases. “Modern dating is about rewriting the rulebook. It's no longer just about old-fashioned gestures, but about genuine respect and real connections. Women today prioritise mutual care over outdated norms, embracing relationships that truly resonate. Let’s celebrate this new era where every connection is built on the freedom to choose what feels right and safe,” says Dr Chandni Tugnait, Relationship Expert for Tinder in India. Also Read: Women's Day 2025 | 62 pc Indian women seeking partners who offer stability and emotional consistency: Survey
08 March,2025 05:19 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentThe dating world, online or in real life (IRL), thrives on effort. But over 8,500 women told Indian dating app, QuackQuack, that the line between effort and annoyance is thin, and daters need to realise it sooner rather than later. 2 in 5 women noted that genuine interest is appreciable, but that coupled with over-persistence is a red flag; striking the right balance is everything.|Ahead of International Women's Day 2025 being celebrated on March 8, the survey was conducted among active female users aged 20 to 35 across all major Indian cities. Respondents belonged to various professional fields and socio-economic backgrounds. They were asked to share their experiences with persistence or its overplay, their perception of effort, and ways to date safely. The app's founder and CEO, Ravi Mittal, added, "In modern dating, emotional intelligence trumps almost all other qualities. Lasting connection while dating online is directly proportional to striking a balance between persistence with effort and giving your match their space to decide whether they are ready to accept all that you have to offer. Only when there's mutual interest is effort appreciated." Read the 'chat' roomThe response or lack of it should be indication enough if your match welcomes the work you are putting in, said 2,876 women between 25 and 30. 3 in 5 of these women revealed that if a match has not replied in a reasonable time frame, it is safe to assume they are not interested. Repeated messages or follow-ups are neither required nor welcome. Over 38% of the respondents shared they find it unsettling if a match relentlessly pursues the connection. Pritika from Delhi said, "Reading the room is very important in dating, online or offline. Double texting is okay, but the third time is not the charm in this case. It is much more appealing when a person gives their match space and time to respond." Digital boundariesApproximately 28 per cent of women from Tier 1 and 2 cities mentioned that they share their social media accounts with a match after 2 to 3 weeks of chatting. Among these respondents, 22 per cent disclosed that their matches have been respectful of their boundaries and continued the interaction in the dating app instead of bombarding them with DMs. Participants explained that sharing 'socials' is not an invitation to chat on those platforms; rather, in modern dating, it serves as "proof of life," validating the lifestyle they claimed to have and reinforcing their authenticity. A soft NO is still a NOThe survey results highlighted that over 19 per cent of women below 24 do not feel comfortable saying a direct "no" and prefer "kind deflection" over brutal rejections. They expressed how their empathy often forces them to ask for a raincheck instead of clean cuts. 3 in 4 of these women from Tier 1, 2, and 3 cities mentioned that "I am busy" or "Let's see" is more often than not a soft no. In such cases, the key is to take the hint and move on. What's a two-way street? FlirtingA flirty text is fun only when it is reciprocated. One-sided flirtation can quickly escalate to uncomfortable interactions. 17 per cent of women above 30 disclosed trying their hands on flirting. 3533 female users from metros and suburbs revealed that women find it off-putting when a match continues to flirt despite receiving dry responses. Raima (26), software engineer from Kolkata, said, "If you get a HaHa for your flirty text, don't waste your flirting skills on them. It's a polite way of disengaging from the conversation." Interest and Insistence - understand the differenceGenuine interest in a match is charming, but the trick is to understand when that interest is turning into insistence. 2 in 6 women shared that people, including themselves, sometimes don't get that repeated texting might be suffocating for a match, that might have otherwise worked out well. Adrija, 31, said, "I strongly believe in not crossing the line between interest and desperation. I did it when I was young, but I've learned my lesson. If you don't get a response, it usually means the match is not interesting, and rarely means they need 10 reminders a day that you exist."
07 March,2025 01:20 PM IST | Mumbai | mid-day online correspondentADVERTISEMENT
