My husband doesn&rsquo;t pay attention to me and my life has lost all joy and enthusiasm. My neighbour&rsquo;s 28-year-old nephew gives me a lot of attention and I feel comfortable with him. He is a very uninhibited guy and I think I can have an affair with him on the sly. Should I? &mdash; Purmi <img alt="" src="http://images.mid-day.com/2013/dec/extra-mari.jpg" style="width: 500px; height: 468px;" /> Dear Purmi, You may have made elaborate plans, but have you wondered what will happen when you will be caught. The guy is single and probably looking for a romp, but you should know better. Remember, it is you who is indulging in an extra marital affair. You will mess up your life forever. Instead, why don&rsquo;t you try and make your marriage come alive. Make an effort to add that spark in it. There is no point in a blame game. Instead of blaming your husband, what have you done to save your marriage? So set your own house in order first. Write to Diana at diana@mid-day.com, or fax her on 24150009. You can also post letters to Dear Diana, Mid Day, Peninsula Centre, Dr S S Rao Road, opp Mahatma Gandhi Hospital, Parel, Mumbai 400012

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