I’m definitely not happy and it has hardly anything to do with my husband. He’s a jolly good guy and tries his best to keep me in high spirit. But I just don’t seem to gel with his personality. We are two different people altogether. Should I go and tell him what exactly is going in my head? Can I consider asking a divorce or is it too early? Should I consider counselling?
— Ashni

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