I confessed to her my fantasy fetish for seeing her with another guy. In return, she told me she found her personal trainer really attractive and wants to sleep with him. While I respect her for being open about letting me sleep around (though I haven’t), I also feel nervous about her being with another guy. Maybe it’s a guy thing but I don’t know if I’m comfortable with her being with a guy I know is a lot fitter and presumably better endowed than me. Am I in a mess?
— Jaan

Illustration/ Amit Bandre