We’ve been in a relationship for the past five years. We are keen on marrying but her family is not ready. So we two have decided on a registered marriage by the end of this year. Initially, she was strong but now she’s not very sure and keeps changing her mind every now and then. A few weeks ago, she even left me saying that our marriage won’t work — only to come back. What should I do?
— Salil

Illustration/ Amit Bandre