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A black thong or stilettos? What turns men on?
Updated On: 13 September, 2012 01:24 PM IST | | A Correspondent
A recent online survey , asking men to pick an accessory that turned them on, the most. The options:
>>Black thong
>>High stilettos
>>Pierced belly
>>Red lace bra
>>Knee high leather boots

Almost 6,500 men voted
45% men picked red lace bra
22% men picked black thong
8% of men picked stilettos
12% men picked belly piercing
13% men picked leather boots
What do the experts say?
Prakash Kothari, Sexologist
Anything that excites the special senses sight, sound, taste, smell and touch will help increase sexual arousal. Accessories and perfume are aphrodisiacs that prepare men for sex.
After living together for 8-10 years, monotony and dullness are bound to set in to a relationship. There is need to add variety, so that the charm of the relationship doesn't wane.
Props help design a fantasy, which is more colourful than real life. They help "sexual grounding", which is perceiving stimuli input as sexual, leading to better arousal.
One must remember that sexuality lies between the two ears, and not between the legs. In other words, desire is driven by the mind. But it should be based on the common consensus of both partners, never forced upon. The biggest problem in India is that there is no communication between partners, and people don't know about each other's desires.
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