Am good-looking, so why don't I have a girlfriend!

Dear Diana,

Illustration/ Sameer Pawar

I am an 18-year-old good-looking guy. I become the centre of attraction wherever I go. Many girls get attracted to me and flirt with me but when I reciprocate it doesn't materialise further and fizzles off. Something goes wrong every time. Some say I am too childish while some break it without an apparent reason. I like laughing and making people laugh but I may overdo it sometimes. I have tried a lot to become serious and reserved but that's just not me. None of my crushes have ever gone to the next level. Had I been an average looking guy, I would have consoled myself but being a guy with good personality and looks and not having a GF really hurts. I need a companion. Maybe I am too childish... I have had a lot of trouble in other areas of my life due to this flaw but I can't get over it. Is this really the problem? Do I need a change in my personality? I am lonely and need help!

Name withheld

Dear Friend,
A lot of girls with mother-hen traits like to be around "childish" guys and think they can change them. If they give up before they've even begun, it's probably because they don't think you're worth the effort. While it's good being self-introspective, you could simply assume that you're moving around with the wrong bunch. Change your set of friends and note the difference.

Galti ho gayi hai humse!

Dear Diana,
I was in a relationship for two years but I broke up with her. Now I realise I've made a mistake! I want her in my life again but she is very angry with me and doesn't want to talk to me. Help!