Am in love with my boss and it is affecting my work

Illustration/ Sameer Pawar

Dear Diana,
I am 24 and am employed in a good firm. For the past two months, I have been in love with my boss. She is five years older than me and is married. She yells at me at work and does not appreciate me, but I still love her. She never accepts any of my ideas, but I still think about her every minute and fantasise how it will be when we make love. Somehow, I feel she picks on me so much because she feels guilty she has feelings for me. I also don't think she loves her husband, as she works very late every day. I dream so much about her, my work is getting affected. My friends tell me I should get over her, but I don't want to. How do I approach her?

Name withheld on request