Dear Diana,
I'm 30 years old. I recently got married. I have had a girlfriend for four years now; I decided not to marry her because of her monetary problems that I couldn't help out with. She married her old boyfriend who is well off financially. We've done everything short of actual sex. She keeps inventing a reason to avoid it. When I tell her we should break up, she refuses to comply. And keeps insisting we won't have sex. What's left to hang around for this relationship then? Should I continue having a relationship with my girlfriend?