Dear Diana,

My husband is a monster in bed. And I really don't mean that in a good way. He's strong while I'm petite. He's dominant while I'm submissive. He demands that we make out and have sex in every kinky way possible. I guess we have tried just about anything humanly possible that a couple can, while spicing up things in bed.

I don't mind a roll in the sack, but don't I deserve a little attention too? He's done pretty soon and I'm left wanting. Most times I've had to masturbate to get myself to an orgasm. Also, I'm afraid he'll soon have burnout or get bored and ignore me completely.

He's been faithful to me this far. I get everything I want. He's a good provider. So I really can't complain, I guess, that he's ignoring me. I wouldn't want the 'honeymoon' to end, but can I really afford to shut up about this?

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