What no one told you not to do in bed

Bravehearts would confess how their irritated partners have suddenly made them run through catalogues of bedroom errors Yes you can afford to not match up to expectations occasionally but to do it often and shamelessly is a sure spoiler as far as your sex life is concerned Read through our inventory of mistakes that you can39t afford to make when at it Yeah no one must39ve told you about many of them so here goes Squeeze easy Her nipples are no radio knobs So stop tuning them ruthlessly Her hurt will turn the session into hell Try to focus on the whole hill not just the peak if you39re to peak at you know what Explore the rest Men mostly believe in the breasts and genitals as focal points Women simply hate that There39re parts left untouched for weeks if not ages Try exploring those and she39ll love you for that Dirty business Just after ejaculation men either retire to bed or go to the washroom for cleaning and stuff Since you39re not going to use the same condom again and you wore it why can39t you dispose it yourself Same goes for women who use tissues Preliminary round If you know swimming you would know that you first stand on the mark and then dive not jump directly like a first timer The same goes when you39re in bed Stop making a sudden spree for the erogenous zones make sure you both are well warmed up first Use some foreplay do the peacock dance leave her pining for you Be speedy not rash There39s a difference between being hard and being tough You don39t want to end up leaving each other with bruises do you Keep the pressure consistent Don39t overdo it No breakers please For men it39s easy to get into the mood again after a few minutes of rest but women are back to square one once they lose the pick up So keep going at all costs don39t give her a chance to relax Undress circle Whosoever is in charge must keep in mind that the partner doesn39t want to look bad while being brought to nothing So remove the clothes slowly interspersed with kisses and caresses Make sure heshe feels good about the bod and please keep the lights low And the full length mirrors away unless that39s a fetish Sex ain39t bookish So you39ve read a lot of love and sex stuff unfortunately practicals are a different game altogether The more spontaneous the better Be original rather than preachy That works each time Don39t force anything Don39t impose your desires of oral sex or certain positions too much on your partner It can be an instant turnoff Not everyone likes it the way you do And the sooner you realise that the better Be thankless You can still be 39giving39 but if you39re thanking him or her for the time spent you39re probably making her feel like a charitable trust Stop it Raise the alarm When your jack is parked in her harbour it39s better to warn her before ejaculation because releasing semen on her means more laundry bill and irritation perhaps Unless he or she is a porn star Mistake myths gtgtYour husband might not be as desperate as you think he is The belief that men think about sex every seven seconds doesn39t hold strong ground According to the Kinsey Report of sexual behaviour in males 54 percent of men think about sex every day or several times a day 43 percent a few times a week or a few times a month and 4 percent less than once a month gtgtAll the stories about a sex deprived man and an dissatisfied woman may not be true because studies have proved that the moment a woman enters a steady relationship her sex drive starts falling A 4year study in Germany proved that less than half of their women wanted regular sex gtgtContrary to women men are able to secure their libido come what may In the same German study 90 per cent of women yearned for care but only 25 per cent men who39ve been committed for more than 10 years felt the same