‘So done with patriarchal control’

Putting real meaning to the phrase lsquowomenrsquos rights are human rightsrsquo Sahiyo a global advocacy platform working towards ending the practice of Female Genital Cutting FGC or Female Genital Mutilation has brought male allies on boardMurtuza Laheri IT services entrepreneurToday on February 6 the world marks International Day of Zero Tolerance towards FGC Sahiyo has aptly launched its newest programme Bhaiyo Male Allies United in Ending Female Genital MutilationCutting Bhaiyo means lsquobrothersrsquo or lsquomale friendsrsquo in Gujarati and is a programme which will work alongside Sahiyo in its efforts to spread education and awareness on human rights issues related to FGCBhaiyorsquos mission is to build a community where men Sahiyo members and survivors will be able to discuss FGC in the hope of changing the narrative and creating a shift towards the abolishment of the practiceldquoBhaiyo allows men to have open and honest conversations about a topic they may or may not know is important to them As brothers itrsquos our collective responsibility to leave the world safer than we found it for those we love Bhaiyo aims to create awareness to help advocates and survivors work to end FGCrdquo said Murtaza Kapasi USbased Bhaiyo programme leadSahiyo has garnered male supporters who have helped spread awareness about FGC through social media and attended workshops where people are taught ramifications of this practice both physically and mentally on women techniques to cope with community pressures and survivor stories Bhaiyo will mean formalising that ally group and giving it a dedicated space under the Sahiyo umbrella ldquoI hope more men will join in to have what is often a very difficult conversation especially for menrdquo said Ashraf EngineerEngineer who is the host of a podcast called All Indians Matter launched on the eve of Independence Day last year said ldquoI have always been a supporter of Sahiyorsquos programmes I have spoken out against the practice written for websites and invited Aarefa Johri Mumbai cofounder of Sahiyo to speak on my podcast As the father of a daughter I feel Irsquom even more of a stakeholder in this movement because it is personal for me We should create awareness towards eliminating the practice We have been a very progressive community but of late I have witnessed regressive statements and pressures like women being forced to wear ridas etc I am done with this patriarchal control The cutting is a form of control and limiting womenrsquos agency over their bodies and we need men to come on board as catalysts of changerdquoOf late FGC has been on the public radar due to a firstofitskind indictment of a Houstonbased woman who transported a minor out of the country for the purpose of the youth undergoing FGC Sahiyo knows it takes more than the law to end FGC Bhaiyo is another step towards engaging with communities to change social norms and cultural traditions from within By bringing menrsquos voices more actively into the conversation there is an effort to bring about societal change via dialogue and educationMurtuza Laheri Thanebased IT services entrepreneur who is the father of two sons said ldquoMany men in the community do know about FGC but are unaware of how grave the situation is or its harmful effects on womenrsquos bodies and psyche I attended a few Sahiyo sessions and truly understood the ramifications of this I am a supporter of eliminating this practice I do speak to parents especially mothers of girls Maybe the mothers are pressurised by inlaws or by the community which usually gives the excuse that the practice is good for health It is also about the fact that people are not really thinking themselves and just following some diktats by leaders I also discern fear in going against something that has been ingrained in minds for so many years We have a long way to go for complete change but the path becomes much easier if there are activists and allies walking togetherrdquoIn recognition of Bhaiyo the founders have planned a webinar lsquoEveryones Responsibilityrsquo on February 23 at noon This webinar will focus on the role male allies play in prevention efforts towards ending FGC Four international expert panelists will lead the webinar mdashJeremiah Kipainoi Murtaza Kapasi Khadijah Abdullah and Tony MwebiaRegister for webinar at httpbitlyEveryonesResponsibilityTickets For more information contact Sahiyo at infosahiyocom