Vashi fruit merchant's son takes a step closer to fulfil Indian army dream

Gaurav Tavhare son of a fruit merchant at Agricultural Produce Market Committee APMC in Vashi is all set to take a step closer to realising his dream joining the Indian armyGaurav who is based in Panvel has just passed his Combined Defence Services Exam CDSE and has stood 74th out of 136 candidates across India He is now headed for the Indian Military Academy IMA in Dehradun where he will undergo a gruelling 15 year course before being commissioned into the armyThe course is a test of physical fitness and mental strength where students are stretched to the limit absolute breaking point in both aspects because like they say only the test of fire makes fine steelGaurav did his primary school at the Awasari Budrul in Pune in the Marathi medium He then got admission in Jawahar Navodaya Vidyalaya JNV Pune which is a project by the Govt of India to provide quality education to students from rural backgrounds see box above About JNV Subsequently the boy with rural roots got a sheen of urbane urban polish at Mumbairsquos Elphinstone College where he did his BSc in PhysicsCarry on Tavhares Gaurav with his father Prakash Tavhare at the fruit market at APMC VashiAmbitionGaurav who believes in striking a balance extracurricular activities and studies shifted to Panvel E from Pune My family had moved to Panvel because of my fatherrsquos occupation and my brothersrsquo education Through the hills and valleys burning the midnight oil adjusting to big city life after a rural childhood there was only one flame burning bright in Gaurav and that was an ambition to join the Indian army It was right there from childhood says Gaurav when asked to explain when he decided he wanted to be in the army He elaborates In fact there were two phases In my childhood when I had seen my uncle Vijay Thorat retired as Junior Warrant Officer JWO from Service I first felt some stirring of pride and ambition I thought to myself These prestigious services were they from me Then while in school and later through higher education I started realising that my country really needs me and that I can make a difference The feeling of lsquopaying backrsquo I think was inculcated in my final days in Navdaya Vidyalaya where I completed my class XII So I think it was perfect combination of lsquoneed plus wishrsquo which inspired me to join the armed forcesPulwama Army personnel recover arms and ammunition from a militants hideout during a search operation against militants at Yarwan forest in South Kashmirrsquos Pulwama district PicsPTIFamilyGaurav still has a connection to the army He says three of my cousins from my village are serving in the army as sepoys Gaurav credits his family with giving me unstinting and unconditional support They are very happy to see me getting closer to what I have always dreamt ofGaurav has a 100 yearold grandmother and two brothers He doffs a hat to his entire family but has special words for older brother Abhinandan and cousin sisters Prerana and Prajakta who kept motivating me in hard times Family support is one thing but even friends who are sometimes astonished at the Forces as a career choice especially with somebody from Mumbai where commerce and monetary success is often everything are giving the thumbs up to Gauravrsquos career choiceSays Gaurav nearly all my friends knew about my aim to join the Defence services I am getting good motivational responses from friends and they are proud of me Perhaps the best for Gaurav is the fact that some of his friends have started preparing for the exams motivated by him He smiles as he says I am happy to see the positive change in themLatehar A security person during an encounter with Naxals in Latehar Jharkhand recentlyNationalismSterling thoughts and burning ambition is all very well but in the forces death is a very real prospect a bullet or a landmine away It is not just conventional war but Naxalism the J amp K separatist movement in which soldiers are losing their lives What are Gauravrsquos thought about them making the ultimate sacrifice Sometimes these also go unheralded and unsung by people in big cities not deliberately but because in cities the Defence Services really seem remote to so many peopleGaurav though says that People have that hidden awareness about nationalism and brotherhood but it is just that their feelings need a little push to find full expression I genuinely think that this picture will change once youth actually start joining the police forces and other programs of national interestDeathOf the shadow of death Gaurav says A soldier has different definitions of living and dying I think Losing valuable lives is a serious issue of course but serving the nation in its purest form has its own pride and our brave soldiers have been proving that time and againIn the end Gaurav says it is about what you feel inside of you I believe that if I become an officer in the army it is not just me who holds responsibility In fact my family my neighbourhood every person in touch with me shares the responsibility in some form or the other consciously or subconsciously they become more responsible towards the country This gives me a different sense of satisfaction well above that one gets in private jobsAn intangible sense of satisfaction but for Gaurav a very real one nevertheless As he helps his father stack fruit at APMC the IMA beckons Dehradun is designed to break the hardiest but Gaurav hopes and his teachers who know his strength believe it is simply a matter of time before the country snaps a salute to Lt Gaurav Tavhare